How do you politely tell someone that you want them naked on top of you
just made myself some grub. :3
oh shit Mr. Rogers omg LOL I USED TO WATCH HIM EVERYDAY WHEN I WAS LITTLE! i dont even know why i watched his show i thought it was shit but it was addictive to watch LOL. omg. <3
the fact that i have a giant list of books that i want to read.. and i havent read a single one.. yet ;3 waiting for start of june when we GET THE FUCK OUT OF SCHOOL AND GO TO COLLEGE :D LOL <3 but seriously.. these next 3 months shall be quite alright. we’ve made it this far. only 58 more school days til we’re out. that’s not even 3 months. that’s like 2 months. WE CAN DO IT~!
I seriously just had to teach my mother some basics of parenting.
Both photos are of my daughter in October, the first in 2011, the second in 2012. I let her pick out her own clothes, shoes, haircuts, hair colors, anything superficial, really. She’s too young to understand the permanence of piercings, so she doesn’t have any. But hair grows, shoes get grown out of, clothes go threadbare. These things don’t really matter—shouldn’t really matter—but anyone raising a gender-variant child knows the world isn’t that kind.
My daughter recently requested a haircut like mine. A long flop on top, pixie-length fade on the back and sides. She’s been bugging me for weeks to color her hair again, I just haven’t had the time. But today she came to me with the same shyness she keeps developing when outside our home; she’s being pressured by peers and family to look “normal,” to grow her hair long and uncolored, to dress a certain way (she hates to match), to indulge in self-consciousness, and alter or not alter her appearance to gain the approval of others, and society at large.
THIS FUCKING INFURIATES ME.
I called my mother tonight, because my daughter had become shy again, and didn’t want to color her hair anymore, and she said it was because of what her Nana had said to her. My mother told me we should get that spray-on Halloween hair colors, so it wouldn’t be so “permanent” and my daughter could be “normal” again to avoid being bullied.
IT IS NOT THE JOB OF THE VICTIM TO STOP BEING BULLIED. IT IS THE BULLY’S JOB TO STOP BULLYING.
I know she gets teased sometimes, and we always talk about it. She stays strong and confident, so long as she has the support of those around her. But what that support falters, or pulls a 180, she’s left to crash.
She also gets teased for liking dinosaurs and not dolls. She gets teased for preferring roughhousing to playing house. She gets teased for liking Lightning McQueen and not Cinderella. Where do we draw the line?
My mother thinks this is a “minor” thing, that it’s better to just blend in. But it would plant the seed of doubt, it forms the foundation for queer kids staying in the closet, for disabled kids to feel worthless, for young girls accepting abusive partners. This is not “minor,” it is fucking MAJOR, because this is my daughter’s foundation, and it will shape her life.
Support your fucking kids. Let them be who they want to be, look how they want to look, and play how they want to play. And make sure they know that you will love them no matter what.
:3 18 in january. finally.
Someone should write a book where the main character slowly falls in love with the reader.
song joong ki <3 omg hes so aushargbkjabsd unf. such a good actor omg. innocent man was one of the best dramas i’ve watched in a long while. why is he so attractive. how can he be 27. wtf. omg. <3 <3 <3 <3
Aries: They smile and laugh more around you. When Aries feel attraction, they feel better about life and that you’re the reason for it. 9 out of 10 times, they will laugh at everything you say.
Taurus: They become a different person in front you. When around you, they behave…
we could be married and i still wouldnt text u first
this is a rough draft of my college essay. about how i began doing spoken word. in this essay, the format goes from an essay vibe to a more poetic vibe, which displays my growing experience with spoken word. :3 yay. tell me yo opinionz.
i hate school its so stressful and you have to wear pants
do i know you / remember you? no? bye. yes? okay. so then…
do you talk to me? no? bye. yes? ehh okay. then…
do i care about you / are you beneficial to me? no? bye. yes? kk. stay.
that’s kinda a gist of it all. as i continue. jsyk.